If your man wants to have bum sex with you does it mean...

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That you have a bucket fanny? I know it's only a Monday but just out of interest. My last lover was fascinated with bum sex. I didn't mind but just wondering if I am a bit slack down there so he needed a bit extra? I just don't get the obsession otherwise!

sonic.

That's a very sensible post on a bumsex thread elusivecamel

Bravo

Hi all. I do like a bit of anal personally but I was getting paranoid that my fanny wasn't good enough. Now I feel rest assured. Thank you.

You can cross 'worrying about fanny' off your to-do list. Every hole is a goal and all that.

How about him wanting to try it to see if his partner liked it, Camel? Or is it too much to expect one's partner to reciprocate selflessness in bed?

izzyskungheifatchoy That is a good point. c) He has/hasn't done it and wants to see if his partner liked it.

:)

Although that could apply to either a) or b). I don't think wanting to try something because you want to do it is mutually exclusive of wanting to see if your partner likes it too.

O, those fleeting moments of sychronicity, eh, Camel?

It's a good wheeze though - 'I just want to see if you like this, honey'

"It doesn't mean anything. It's a sexual practice like any other that plenty of men and women enjoy.

Either
a) he has done it before, liked it and would like to do it again.
b) he hasn't done it and is curious about trying it to see whether he likes it.

Really quite simple and the same reasons as some women might suggest it to a partner."

Quite.

Would that be after they've belted on a strap-on, Insomnia

Otherwise there might be an unwelcome hiatus... followed by an unexpected fissure

Ive been away from mumsnet for a while and feeling a bit like the new girl, but its all good - a bumsex thread, all is well with the world :)

but just to add my two penneth - if you like it, as in, if you like how it feels, both physically and psychologically (some like the naughtiness, i konw i do, or used to, we dont do it now for some reason) do it, if you don't and its only something he likes - don't do it. Not even for a treat