After a divorce followed by a relationship of 18 months in which my heart was broken, I decided to spend some time with my kids and forget men for a while. Two years on and I'm feeling good about everything.
But recently I started dating again and am seeing two men. One I can tell is crazy about me, but I know I will never feel the same. He is good company but I could easily live without him. The other is more interesting and could possibly be something, but I still can't conjure up that much excitement for him, although he too is good company.
What would you do? I am starting to feel bad and that I might be leading them on, especially the one who is crazy about me. I've only had a few dates with both of them, but I don't want to upset anyone the way I was upset. Is it better to get out now, before it goes too far? I just have no idea how this dating thing works anymore.
Thanks for any advice. Sometimes I just think the whole dating thing is too much effort!