My sisters MIl has just died and I feel really bad as she was a lovely person, I don't get on that well with my sister anymore and have not spoken for a while, I did ask mother to pass on condolences etc but should I be ringing her myself, what do I say chances are she may not want to talk to me but really deep down I do love her and want to talk
another reason i feel bad is that she really loved her mil yet i can't stand mine best part of the time, its not that she is horrible or neglects my baby quite the opposite infact, she is so over the top that everytime i see her she gets on my nerves, just the way she talks to dd irritates me, she must of thought when i was prg that i was going to hand baby over to her and she was making plans without even asking me (this is where the problems stemmed from i think)I know i should appreciate her more coz she will do anything babysit anytime, how do I overcome how I feel, is this something that is quite common with other mums and mil or am I just being plain mean