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Saw a neighbours' DV - feeling very wobbly and upset now.

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msshapelybottom · 18/01/2012 18:04

This morning as the kids and I were going out to the car for the school run we saw our neighbour being yelled at by her very agressive partner outside their house. She was just sitting on the doorstep taking the verbal onslaught.

I got the kids into the car and called the local police who said they would send a car out. (I think the man could see me on the phone but I couldn't just leave things) I don't know what happened after that, but by the time I got home again the man's car had the rear window smashed and there were bits of broken golf club and other debris on the road.

Later this afternoon the kids and I were out walking, as we returned the man went inside his house, slammed the front door behind him then there was this almight scream from inside. We went into our house and I called the police again.

I'm feeling very shaken and worried, I've been trying to reassure my kids that everything is fine and things have calmed down now but I'm worried that this guy will figure out I called the cops and come and find me.

Deep down I know he's probably too coward to do that but I am feeling so upset that this is going on just a few doors away.

The poor woman. She must be terrified. It reminds me of when I was small and my parents used to fight, I still feel very uneasy around men who are behaving in an agressive manner.

Just needed to write this down I suppose.

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msshapelybottom · 18/01/2012 20:12

Thanks everyone, I feel better about it after reading such supportive replies!

I don't know the neighbours well, I know the woman to say Hi to, and I have always avoided the man as he just emits bad feelings. If she was to approach me I would ask how she was, but not in a million years would I go near the house.

I have taped up my letterbox, I don't know why exactly, just that I feel a little less safe in my own home tonight. Daft bugger that I am! I don't know what I think would happen via the letterbox but somehow it helps Blush

There are no kids involved with these people thank goodness, bad enough that the woman is suffering. Hope she can find the strength to leave one day soon.

Thanks again for the support :)

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GoingForGoalWeight · 18/01/2012 20:18

Good deed done :)

I think you did the right thing. Men who abuse woman in any way are scum.

GirlWithPointyShoes · 18/01/2012 20:27

Can I just say that you are brilliant! You didn't even think twice, You just got your kids in the car then phoned the police.

I hope more people read this thread and realize how easy it is to possibly make a big difference in/save a womans life. Just pick up the phone and be brave like this lady.

Well done!

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