Following on from a previous thread is this toxic behavior or just being mean

[iluvsummer]

DS grandparents have said/done this things since he's been born....(long back story my other thread is here somewhere don't know how to link sorry)

*told me they will not look after gs whilst I was pregnant
*told my parents that they will do f all to help me dp and ds
called ds a little f*er and s*t
*sworn at him when talking to him
*laughed at him when he's fallen over and had hurt (and not in a funny lol way but cackling ha ha way)
*not bothered contacting when he's been ill and taken to hospital
*don't bother seeing him
*have not helped in any shape or form physically or emotionally when we've desperately needed support
*treat him blatently differently to other gc
*make snide and hurtful comments about him/me/dp but in a seemingly nice way

there is more but I can't think at the moment, don't want to sound moany or silly but it's starting to grind me down!

Toxic and mean

Do not let them see him. He needs protecting from them.

Toxic and extremely harmful to your child.

Keep them away from him.

That's horrible, they sound completely psychopathic tbh. So yes, toxic.

Not remotely moany or silly!

I agree, you need to keep your child safe from these toxic "people".

Thank you all just needed some reassuarance I suppose. I have begun to detach from them both myself and ds, it is just hard as I want them to be part of his life but they are who they are and anyway they don't seem bothered about seeing him.

Good lord, a non-toxic non-mean person wouldn't treat a total stranger's child like that, let alone their own GC.

You don't want them to be part of your DS's life. You want some nice grandparents to be part of etc. These people are not those grandparents, unfortunately.

They are disgusting people. But why is it you are only just now wondering about this? The first time someone swore at my child would be the last time they saw him/her, never mind the rest.

They are truly awful. Never see them again.

Why the hell do you want them to be part of his life? Don't you know what being treated like that can do to a child? He doesn't deserve that and you don't deserve to have to see your child being treated like that.

Please protect him from them and tell them to go fuck themselves.

I've been wondering a long time about it not just now its/just with recent events its become very clear that they are in fact scum. When they spoke to him like that I wiped the floor with them picked him up and left. They have only seen him a handful of times since and not without me.

They really, really do sound like scum. Cunts. Good for you for taking your son away from their presence- I wouldn't be hurrying back, at least you've got your parents. Must be difficult for your DP though.