I take it Im dumped.
I have a friend I used to work with. We are the same age (early forties) she's a lp but gets loads of support from her ex dp. In that, every other weekend and one night in the week the dd's stay with him. Without fail.
She was always flaky in that she would make arrangements and drop out at last minute, saying childcare had let her down. When she did come out she would have such a good time and say how pleased she was that she had met me and I always invited her along to everything.
We were both on our own and, honestly, it was lovely to meet up once a month for a drink and a natter.
She was vague about men. In that she would say things when she was drunk and then berate me months after for asking how it was going with so and so, telling me she was freaked by how I never forgot anything 
but, there was always a drama. Her married next door neighbour who was chasing her, the gardener who was constantly hitting on her, the sleazy dad from school. All of them loaded and all in relationships. I dont know if she ever took it further as she always played those cards close to her chest.
Anyway, at New Year she text to ask what I was doing and, I asked what she wanted to do (we have done New Years Eve together before and had a fab time) surprise, suprise, she never returned the text. Ive text her casually when I know the dd's are away and she hasnt replied, I rang her yesterday morning and she said she was in Waitrose and would ring me last night. She never.
I feel terrible because of all the rl issues are read on her but, its still painfull. I dont know what Ive done. The only time Ive felt like this is when Ive been dumped by a man I have been really into 