I posted on here about them under another name a while back, and they are diagnosed by me as having npd, they have been diagnosed by a psychiatriast as having other problems, they only had a few sessions as far as I know!
Well it is exh, he is an example of his attitude, he said earlier this year he never wanted to see the children, then things like the child he had not long ago, was a special child and very much wanted that type of thing. He doesn't give the children he had with me any acknowledgement of being alive.
He took me to court for years over all sorts of made up shit and making drama's out of nothing. Sometimes he used legal representatives and refused to speak to me regarding legal issues. Legalities are now over near the end of last year. He had another child after that, he never told us when it was born or anything, I was told by the csa. I am wondering if he is upset that his child spawn with crescent moon face he left for and who caused a lot of trouble has not been acknowledged by us or something. We have also sold the house and he knew where we were, we never know when he moved, where he works or his phone number/email etc. He now will not know where we are, so maybe a bit of missing of control there. I have also cut contact with a lot of people so he can't get any gossip if he was via someone not in my life, but could get info via others and pass to him, long story. He is getting no info from me or courts either now. Everything about him was top secret and somehow he managed to get all my info as I have the kids.
The kids and I have not bothered with his parents, who's mother I suspect has npd also, found every reason under the sun to not see the kids, I never bothered with her after that conversation, about a year and a half ago, she has gotten quite nasty since, long story. The kids and I don't bother with any of them, I am sure they miss the drama of us chasing them.
None of us are interested in having anything to do with him, well I am not 100% sure about kids, I am guessing there, would have to speak to them about it all again.
He hasn't asked about them, he emailed me out of the blue from I presume a new email address he set up for the issue, after over a year of no one on one contact. He claimed he didn't want to use the solicitor any more as it was too costly and was quicker this way. We have needed for legal issues to discuss things many a time and he always wanted solicitors.
I can't be arsed with it all, and I am scared I am going to start thinging he is a decent person again if I am not carefull.
I want to get on with my life and it is like he wants me to be upset by him again, he used to see me every few months at court and that won't happen any more now.
He should be concentrating on finding a new home for him and his wife and child, it is clear the kids he had with me mean nothing to him.