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Wondering if he's logging into my Facebook?

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TicketToRide · 07/01/2012 18:35

So just recently boyfriend has been commenting on stuff regarding MY facebook. Not too concerned at first as it was stuff I was posting on my wall and people were replying to but on a couple of occasions he has commented on stuff he shouldn't be able to see. One time it was a comment I made on someone elses status update and when I pulled him up on it he stuttered and said "oh it just came up, must have been a facebook mistake" so I let it go but last night he mentioned a conversation I was having with someone on their own status and I know for a fact that this friend's profile is VERY limited/private so there is no way he should have been able to see that.

He accidently left his facebook logged in on my laptop this morning and I quickly went to it, looked up my profile and NONE of the conversations he claims to have seen are on there! Only way he could see them is if he was logging in to my account, right?

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NatashaBee · 07/01/2012 18:37

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ISayHolmes · 07/01/2012 18:41

Change your password! And don't log in to your facebook on any devices of his anymore- they may keep it logged into your profile. It does sound like he's been looking at your FB. Not on really, I'd be angry that my partner felt the urge to keep tabs on me by looking at my page and would think they were very insecure.

MrsB24 · 07/01/2012 18:43

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HopeEternal · 07/01/2012 18:58

Actually, it's very easy to see wall conversations that an FB friend is having with a non-FB friend. If one of an FB friend's comments shows in the activity ticker in the upper right hand corner of someone's home page all they need to do is to hover over that and the entire conversation will pop up.

BecauseImperfect · 07/01/2012 19:02

Erm it's really easy to see other peoples conversations and photos. They appear in your time line. So and so commented on xs status.

You can see the whole thing even from private profiles.

If it were pm I'd say yes he was. But from what you've said not necessarily. It could have been on his timeline.

tigermoll · 07/01/2012 19:07

You have two options:

Change your password

or:

Arrange with a friend to stage a fake conversation, and plant some false information. See if he mentions it.

BecauseImperfect · 07/01/2012 19:25

Why all the cloak and dagger stuff? It's very probable these convos could have appeared on his fluent timeline. Hence them not being there when you looked.

As two people have now told said.

If you don't trust him why are you with him? If you think he must be up to no goo. He's just a bf.

If I were him and being accused or put on the spot for something I hadn't done. Knowing you jumped to the worst conclusion. I'd be dumping you.

NatashaBee · 08/01/2012 00:20

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SparklyGothKat · 08/01/2012 00:28

I know that DP can see comments I have put on others photos or status. He showed me on his phone once when I was asking about a bag a friend was selling. I think it depends on my friends settings. Mine is set to friends only. I'm not bothered as I have nothing to hide.
Are you sure your friends settings ain't set to friends of friends as then he would be able to see it.

HopeEternal · 08/01/2012 00:29

Natasha, I don't have the timeline yet. That's not what I referred to. I can assure you that the activity ticker has no respect for profile settings.

Bossybritches22 · 08/01/2012 00:31

Check all your settings, change your password if you are worried, set everything to private.

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