My husband left in Oct 2011 while I was 4.5 months pregnant. I am now 7 months pregnant. A good freind said something that shocked me but now have noticed some truth in what he said. He said be careful and watch out for certain female freinds. Why I said, he continued," you dress well and are pretty and I can imagine some girls will not want to invite you in to their "time" as they will worry about their husbands. I was shocked and said people would not be that cruel or stupid? I am pregnant, just lost my husband who I still love and I have never cheated or stolen anyone from anyone, I do not want sloppy seconds. My freind is elderly and said he had experienced this.
I have noticed one freind in particular who has behaved like this. She lives around the corner 2 mins away and only replies back on voicemail a week or two weeks after you call. I needed to talk to her urgently and left a message once, she did not even reply. Her messages are,"just about to get on underground can't talk. I feel she does this so she can say to others she called. I can tell she does not give a damn. Her husband was really kind and I am so aware of not stepping in to other's spaces.
Whenever I met up with her I would always give her a nice compliment but she never could do the same for me. I was also loving and complimentary to her children too. You notice things in people and now going through a pregnancy on my own and a divorce good genuine people stand out and so does the rubbish. I hope that she never will go through what I am.
I have a freind who came all the way from St. john's wood, cooked food for me and even bought me a nice home gift and she has a 3 yr old son, but she did this really sweet gesture for me.
Last week I was nearly burgled and Police were called, apparently 2 other people in my st had called police about same matter. I thought to myself if there was a real emergency there is no way on Earth that she would bothered.
This year I will edit an awful husband out of my life and get rid of rubbish/fake people.