History- met the guy (TG) through his friend who I dated VERY casually. We started casually also but then it progressed to holidays to his home in France, dinner out once a week, sleepovers at his every other night etc. We then broke up due to increasing twat behaviour on his side and I guess increasing jealousy on mine. We stopped talking but then got back in contact as we live about 2 min apart, we would frequently bump into one another. We were on good terms until he got a new gf, she demanded he have no further contact with me as inwas a threat...?! So he listened. During this time I fell pregnant but I didn't remain in a relationship with the guy. TG found out and congratulated me and told me he was sorry for not talking to me (they had since broken up) as I got bigger I would see/speak to him less. He would send odd texts apologising for being a crap friend, I always accepted and forgave. When DS was born he congratulated me and in my new mother emotional state I asked (demanded) why he had changed towards me and become so distant. His reply was unexpected and emotional; he said he felt that now I had a baby there was no chance of us trying again and that he really messed up etc. I saw him about 3 months after DS's birth and we hit it off as usual. He said i was looking better then before, that he wants to try harder with me from now on... We saw each other a few times after, he invited me out with his friends, it was going well. Apart from one time he invited me over he told me that I would have to leave after an hour as he had just made plans with friends!!! Normally this wouldn't bother me too much but I could see his twatness reapering. There where other issues too, I wouldn't hear from him for a few days- absolutely fine, but then he would call me at 2am- not fine. He would tell me we would go out and have dinner- nothing. This is all very typical of the old him.
So basically I sent him a text about 2 weeks ago saying I cant see him anymore as he is an utter mindfuck and he clearly hasn't changed. He text back about a week later saying he's sorry he doesn't want to be a mindfuck, he's away at the moment but when he's back he wants to meet up and talk properly about what is going on between us and that he's been thinking about me lots. I replied that again this is his usual act of saying something and not backing it up. His reply- he does mean what he says and he wants to see me as soon as he's back. I replied something along the lines of I know I won't hear from him when he gets back. So he got back yesterday and I haven't heard anything. I am SO furious and feel SO stupid yet again. I know most of you will say why didn't I forget him a long time ago, well I wanted to but I am so hopelessly in love with him. Anyway I want to send him a text now telling him how much of a rude twat he's been!!! I need some witty, sharped tongued fellow MNers to help with this please!