Is him watching porn a big deal? Is he missing something with our sex life??!!??

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Thanks for your replies, it's something I've never had to deal with.
Ex partners must have hidden it a lot better

It is another woman he's masturbating too. That is real.

How would he feel if you started letching over other men's bodies. He probably wouldn't like it.

You wouldn't like it if he went down the local brothel to watch the action, so why is it OK for him to watch it on film. The answer is, it's not.

If you don't like this and it's hurting you, don't ignore your feelings.

Are there children in the house whilst he's masturbating to pornography.

He's already told you he will stop if you are bothered about it and you are still not happy. You sound very, very jealous and this is a bad thing. Dementedly jealous people get dumped, and it serves them right.

Solidgold :
Are you a man or woman just out of interest?

Thunderbolts :
No our children are not in the house when I'm on the night shift they are at my parents

I know he said he would stop I just didn't want to control something that do many seemed view as normal.
If any of you could look at my other post I've given quite a lengthy update of the other issues surrounding the relationship.
Of any of you care to give your opinion / take on it is be very grateful,
Thanks

Porn is a dealbreaker for lots of people. You don't have to feel OK about it or accept it in a relationship if it upsets you. If you read the thread that Charbon linked to you will find that there are many legitimate reasons people object to porn, aside from being jealous of him looking at other women. It's not a question of controlling him, you might just find out which is more important to him - your feelings or his wank-fodder - that's all.

However, I have read your other thread and you do come across as incredibly insecure. I'm not sure in this case that the porn is the real issue.

Why is your mother looking after your children while you work, when you've got a perfectly capable partner at home?

As we both work shifts so he doesn't get
Home until 11pm and I start at 6pm
I Only work 2 nights a week

TBH I don't think it is a big deal at all. However it is about how you feel and if you feel uncomfortable then you need to talk to him about it.

999
you have quite a few threads going right now; maybe you should leave this guy and settle down, this much tension cannot be good for you or your new baby.

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