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am going crazy from sexual frustration!

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goingslowlynuts · 20/12/2011 12:00

very long story but gist is...hubby has NO sex drive, mine is through the roof. We've always been like this (been together 15yrs). Has always been an issue.
Have rowed and cried and talked it to death. Nothing changes.

I love him so much, he looks after me, he's my rock and soulmate. I fancy him. We get on so well, have a laugh. He's very affectionate, lots of hugs and kisses, lots of compliments, I feel very loved.

However, I am desperate for some sex, some passion, someone to touch me. I feel like my life is just passing by without sex. I've lost lots of weight recently, had hair done..I look good (though I say so myself!) and it's just made it worse..now I'm thinking what was the point of all that effort of the diet and exercise...am still not getting any.

I used to be able to sort myself out and did frequently - this helped a lot. However, he's off work at the moment so home all the time so I can't get any 'alone' time. I've been ratty and quiet last few days...and near to tears. I can't think straight.

I realise I have just as much of a problem as him, my sex drive is out of control..his is non existent.

There's no answer I know..but I just really needed to get it off my chest.

Thanks for reading.

OP posts:
WishfulThinking08 · 15/12/2018 16:36

I’m going to get slated for this but no worries on my part..things will not improve I know, I’ve been there, no matter how much talking how much patience etc. things will never change. I know you love him respect him & fancy him & only want sex & intimacy with him but are you going to stick with it & look back in another 10 years time & regret not doing anything about it yourself, just going along with the flow as it were. Take a lover..it will keep you sane & satisfied. It’s not the advice you’ll want to hear & I wouldn’t normally give it but as I say I’ve been there & it’s an emotional wasteland, you’ll end up with mental health problems due to all the pent up frustration & anger & that isn’t healthy for you as a woman & the rest of your family.

ginandbearit · 15/12/2018 16:45

Another zombie thread..talk about raising the dead ...

WishfulThinking08 · 15/12/2018 16:51

ginandbearit..definitely, that’s why I’ve given the advice that I have which is to take a lover. In a nutshell there’s no hope for this ladies sex life, she says he’s been like it since she met him..a long long time ago..time to ring the changes.

Anthony1234 · 06/01/2019 17:16

I stumbled upon this post, I’m a guy and in the same situation as you, I wish my lady had half the sex drive as you, he sounds like a lucky man.

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