Hello,
As I am of the other gender and not quite a dad yet, not sure if I should be even reading these threads, let alone posting a reply !!
Have just joined tonight after studying the "best of" sections for nappies etc. We are expecting our first in June.
My opinion is that alittleupset should not be worried about hubby being a little uninterested.
I am sure that many men have times when sex is not top of the list. Having been a randy sod myself, I am even surprised when I would rather go and put the kettle on.
Have you considered that you hubby may be under some stress in his life? At work, the kids, ageing parents, his own health etc?
How about your own age (whatever it is). Us boys are peaking in our late teens whereas you girlies dont really get going until your thirties
In my case, having been trying in earnest for over a year to get preggers, counting days, measuring temperatures, ovulation kits etc. then being called upon to "do my thing", sex can become a job, rather than a recreation.
Take your love making back to the basics and work up to it. Romance, cuddles, no kids for the night, warm bath (together??) etc.
You could always try a different approach, different room, position etc. Perhaps he is still in love with you, but not vanilla sex (might as well do a hand wash...).
Try and put the fun back into your togetherness and intimacy and I am sure that soon enough the nookie will return with abundance.
Best of luck