scared when knowing a relationship has done its time

[angelintraining]

im new on here so bare with me as i dont know all those abreviated words. but just needed to off load somewhere, been with p (if thats right?) for 2yrs, great at the start lots of hugs, kisses, texts, chats. then had a baby and it seemed to get distant, p goes out i stay in, no convo. were blaming each other for the atmosphere and im scared that i know its coming to an end, what hurts is i still love him but know we have to many differences for us to work. dont know how to feel or cope with this, any advice would help thanks

oh and any tips on what those words stand for :o)

Angel, can I recommend you go to couples' counselling together? Perhaps use Relate or something similar local to you? Even if you think you can't afford it try enquiring, because some places will waive the fee if you can't pay. Even if this really is the end of your relationship, it will probably help you achieve an amicable breakup which can only be to your, your partner's and most of all your baby's benefit. So sorry to hear of your situation, it sounds very painful. I hope you don't mind, but here's the link to Relate:

www.relate.org.uk/home/index.html

farlorigel thanks for your comment much appreciated, i had tried that previoulsy with xp with no luck, again we were too different..once again he prefered night & social life over family. its like history all over again and begining to feel its me! id had an amicable break up from my xp who i have 2 kids with. I feel if it were to come to a break up it would be amicable because i feel we both know we have different views or lifestyles nad not due to hating eachother, but its the fact that i still look at him and have feelings for him that i cant get to grips with. its like loving someone you know you cant be with. if that makes any sense! emotions are all over the place.