I have changed my name from last few posts, which were all to do with my now ex-H (well still married but the relationship is over thankfully). I thought that it would take me forever to even want to think about getting involved with someone but have met up a couple of times with a male friend who is also just out of a 'car crash' relationship. First time was a coffee and we talked about our exes and had a great laugh - really bonded (we've always got on like a house on fire - I thought he was gay, but recently seen him in a different light - he's not gay). He's been very keen back. Tonight we went to the pictures. Nothing happened except small kiss on cheek as we left but there is definitely chemistry. Several texts later we are both keen to meet up again. But then I think I pushed it a bit far my suggesting we meet this weekend but he is working this and next weekend. He's said let's do something in 2 weeks. I'm a bit worried that I've come on a bit too strong. Its maybe a bit pathetic but after 15 years in an emotionally unrewarding if not abusive relationship it's just so nice to hang out with a lovely guy who is sweet and just a little bit sexy too. I'm still sorting out financial arrangements with to be ex-H - it's definitely over though and I'm finding myself having surprisingly strong feelings (not just lust...but some of that too) for new guy! He's single, available and wants to meet a woman!! What to do??