Would you love me if i was fat?

[ClarryKitten]

A - Yeah...just not as much.

would you laugh or cry?

If I loved you before you were fat then i'd love you now that you are fat if that makes sense.

Has your other half told you he doesn't love you as much?

Laugh - i would take that as a 'jokey' answer.

You would still love them regardless, maybe the word is fancy?

Can you tell us a bit more?

Are you fat?

has he said or shown he doesn't fancy you as much?

Cry.

It'd depend on why you were fat.

I think a drastic change in physical appearance will change how you are viewed by a partner, whether it's 'Love' or 'Fancy' is down to the individual I guess.

i'm not fat at all...remarkably firm and nubile considering i have 2 under 6.
I asked my partner this question in part jest and I loved the answer, whilst pissing myself laughing. Nothing like honesty in a relationship. I agreed wholeheartedly and said something similar that if he were ever to become a porker, mentally or physically, I wouldn't love his as much, if at all, either.

Nice

Arf at LITR.

i asked this a couple of weeks ago as i am having weight issues due to new medication. i was told "the packaging is not important, its the person i love!"
:)

Why are you asking the question then? You weirdo show-off

I am overweight but I would never have asked the question in the first place tbh

Another one for Bullshit Man!

A pointless question, IMO. Why is fat always seen as the "ultimate turn off?" When there are quite plainly people who are either not bothered by bigger bodies or actively prefer them?
Why not ask, "would you love me if I was stupid?"

'would you still love me if i started asking paranoic questions that demonstrated a growing, irrational insecurity in our relationship?'

ah...but you'd know if the person was stupid when you first met them. They cannot spring stupidity on you.

You'd know the person was stupid if they asked that fucking question!

God what a pair of wankers you both sound! Obviously perfect for each other.

I don't think you expect your lover to have the same sort of unconditional love for you that a parent has for a child. I think the Greeks understood this with their different words for love. Fancying my husband is important as well as liking his personality. If I gained 4 stones my husband wouldn't fancy me as much and wouldn't love me in the same way and I'm not interested in being loved like an asexual friend or sister..