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Really need to pick myself up.......!!!!

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soupset · 06/01/2006 22:07

I'm not really sure why I'm posting here, I just need to get it out really, feel free to ignore!
My dp has just told me that 'it's best if we don't see each other any more' The thing is I know he's right, we don't live together and have such wildly different lives and it's gotton to the point where I and he both know that he can't give me what I need from this - he works away a lot and is very very reluctant to commit at all because of this. We've been together for nearly three years and I can't just keep ambling along like this. So I spoke to him, he can't or won't commit and we both agreed to call it a day.
But now I can't stop crying!! I don't want to lose him, I love him. I'm having to drag myself back from the phone to stop myself calling him and telling him to forget everything I said and we'll just carry on as we were!! I really really want to but I know it would be no good for me. Aaaarrrrggghhh I feel like I'm going mad!

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soupset · 06/01/2006 22:33

Someone stop me from calling him......lol I am sat here with the phone almost convincing myself that something is better than nothing...

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bramblina · 06/01/2006 22:35

You have to want someone more than you need them...

soupset · 06/01/2006 22:45

I don't need him, well I don't think so. I just needed some confirmation of where it was going, I didn't want to stay here doing this forever if it's going nowhere. But I do want him, a lot! lol
Ohhhhhhh I don't know what to do now.

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Groggymama · 06/01/2006 22:47

i haven't got any advice for you but am sending you a hug cos you're driving yourself nuts

soupset · 06/01/2006 22:50

Thankyou groggymama I really am driving myself nuts, I just can't shake the feeling that I shouldn't have done this, and is it fixable??.. Oh I need a drink!!!! lol

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ravenfern · 06/01/2006 23:37

Hi soupset,i just read your post and wanted to wish you luck in getting what you really need,want and deserve.
I wonder if there is a chance he said you shouldn't see each other any more as a way to get you to agree to settle for how things were.
Lots of luck and happiness for 2006

browniechick · 06/01/2006 23:51

Hi Soupset - can only offer the following words of advice, and feel free to totally ignore if you wish. Someone once said to me - Never settle for second best.
You are worth so much more - unless this is what you want for the rest of your life, as it is now? If not - then you are settling for second best - believe me, and I speak from experience - there is something and someone better for you out there. Don't put yourself down, be a strong independent woman, and it is hard, I know, but once you are strong in youreslf, everything else will click into place.

Good Luck and GodSpeed.

vicimelly · 07/01/2006 00:42

Thankyou everyone for replying. I feel like I'm falling apart atm, I can't stop crying I really love him, I don't want anyone else... god I need to get a grip!!!

vicimelly · 07/01/2006 00:43

Ok blew up my alias there! lmao I hope to god he doesn't come looking!!!! lmao

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