DP and I have been together for around a year and a half. We still live seperately, no children, seperate finances etc. I want out. I can think of nothing else. He's 37 but acts like he's over the age of 50. Spends his evenings sat in watching darts on the TV or wrestling (the fake entertainment kind). He plays no sports, has no hobbies, has no friends, never goes anywhere. The highlight of his week is going to a car boot sale with his parents. He's never been abroad (apart from a hop to Holland when he was 18) and has never really "done" anything.
When we see each other he is nice to me, we can have a laugh, he'll help me with the gardening or diy - but I feel like I've got my dad around to help iyswim? the attraction has gone. The sex is terrible. He nags and nags and nags for sex and then when I give in he can't get it up anyway - que lots of "trying" to shove it in anyway and it's so awkward it's almost nauseating.
I have grown in confidence so much in the past year or so and now more than ever I'm sure I could get someone more "Me" iyswim?? but what makes it all so difficult is that he thinks everything is fine and assumes we'll still be together when we're pensioners. The thought makes me depressed.
How do you break up with someone that hasn't actually done anything wrong? this is my fault, I made a terrible decision a year and a half ago and now I want out but I don't want to hurt him. Can anyone else empathise?? Could you live like this?