i do not want junk mail addressed to xp from the local health spa

[HauntedLittleLunatic]

Especially when it is assessed to xp (x for a reason!) says

'we hope your loved one enjoyed their gift voucher last year.....'

Aibu to want to pass on to his 'loved one's dh?

Just bin it. Its not fair on her DH to send that and a part of you knows it.

Which is why I included the word want in the last sentence.

And fwiw I don't think that it is fair on her dh that she is still seeing his best friend behind his back but also accept that is not my problem.

Oh haunted, I can see why this upset you. It would me also. You already know that passing it on would serve no purpose that would help you.

Concentrate on getting over the split and make sure you make the best life you can for yourself. Best wishes to you.

So, did I get this right, you opened his mail? Or did it say that on the envelope?
Life is short, bin it or forward to him if you can be arsed.

Of was an advertising postcard so no envelope

Return it to the sender telling them to amend their database. If they do not amend their database and you receive another card from the same sourse, return it to sender in a big envelope, NO STAMP, with something like a heavy newspaper so they have to pay the postage. Tell them again to amend their database or the newspapers will get heavier!!! This should do the trick. Meanwhile getting happy is the best revenge, much sweeter than your Plan A. Good luck time is a great healer!

source!

I must stress I have and never did have any intention of following my plan....just thinking about possibilities that could be done...call it a 'thought revenge'

I know what you mean re 'thought revenge'. I've spent hours thinking up revenge plots in the past but in the end, I decided to put those hours to better use.

It's hard when you are still hurting from what went on, no-one can blame you for that.

Maybe do what rightchoice says and ask them to amend their database. Also something I spent hours doing over a number of months until I no longer got post for XP.

I like revenge served vintage, never mind cold. I think that Karma took care of most of my plans for me....... all by itself. What goes around eventually catches up with people so he got his just deserts in the end.

Hopefully, the people who have hurt you will too.

Send the letter back in an unstamped envelope along with a couple of old banana skins - usually does the trick. My dad used to do this with all his junk mail and it soon stopped.