Ive name changed but Im on here alot!!
My good friend married a man after 8 years together. A year into it he left her for his pregnant OW who he had only known two months. It was heartbreaking but, she survived.
A year ago she met a man. A real charming ambitious man from abroad but, based in her town (his job is in my title) In the first three months together he was going back and forth to his home country and, been the cynic that I am, told her to keep an eye on that situation. She laughed and said he'd never even lived with a woman. He openly told her from the beginning how much he had slept around as he had been single for a long time (the job gives him plenty of opportunity). All the time shes checking his phones and computers for anything. Theres one woman ringing him constantly whom he fondly calls his "stalker" again, being the cynic I am I told her that it was probably a gf he was trying to dump or still shagging. Some bloody friend I sound like! 
Anyways, she has been to his home country twice. He has wined dined and romanced her and she has never seen anything to say that he is with other women. He wants to move in with her. They are supposed to be going to his country this week and last night he confessed that when they met He was living with a woman back in his home town and that he finished with her after afew weeks. He didnt want to tell my friend at the time because she had just told him about her cheating exhusband.
She doesnt know what to do. Hes begging her not to finish it.
Has anyone got any advice? she hasnt picked up the phone to him yet. Thanks in advance.
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