Is he really that into me

[carbslover]

In a bit of a pickle, been having a flirtation with a guy whose a few years older than me from my work. At work there has now been several rather, ahem, passionate kisses in the past three days, and a few odd, and rather random, more intimate quick kisses if you know what I mean.

HOWEVER aside from these kisses and the flirting there has been nothing else, hasn't asked for my number etc.

Is he into me or is he just after a shag?

go with the flow (but dont give too much too soon if you get what i mean ) remember men are abit slower than women

Ask him! "Do you want my number or not? Because if not I'm not wasting any more of my precious time with you.' Simple!

Sounds like you might have given away the goods too soon love and he doesn't need to take your number, if I have interpreted the rather more intimate kisses correctly.

If it's been 3 days I think it's too early to tell what he wants. I personally wouldn't ask him in fruitloop's manner but I would ask him, nicely (just in case he's a good 'un).

keep kissing and take it slow, the impression I am getting, it seems a bit of fun for both of you at the moment, dont jump in and give him the goods yet

tbh if you had anything with him wouldnt you have had this chat already? how old are you and how old is he? sounds like hes just playing with you but play it cool ... is he married?

Adamschic...by intimate kisses i mean more loving ones, like a boyfriend/girlfriend kiss lol. Nothing else!

And i have no intention of giving anything away just yet! I'm 21 he's 30

If you have to ask then probably not.

Can I recommend that you don't get involved with work colleagues? There's wisdom in the saying 'don't shit where you eat' (having had many a lovely work friend cry on my shoulder over the years, I firmly believe work and sex don't mix).

Just enjoy it

Sorry I interpreted it wrong. I'm a firm believer that a man will make it obvious what he wants from you and you won't be left wondering. Don't go any further and be careful. See what happens.

My gut feelings tell me he's just enjoying the fun/power of kissing a younger woman or he would have asked to take you for a drink before initiating a snog.

Is he married?
Is he in a relationship?

If I were you I'd give myself a shake, come to my senses and bite the bastard's tounge next time he tried to slip it where it shouldn't be!

He's after a shag in the stationery cupboard.

Yep Buzz recon he is.

He's after a shag in work.

Is he senior to you or your boss? Be even more cautious if that's the case.

Sounds married/attached to me. Do you actually have conversations with each other or just snog?

OP ive changed my mind i think if this guy respected you and was serious he would be a gentleman and start with the good old fashion dinner date and discuss the way forward because all this sneaking around raises a few doubts im with Aliceinboots on this one

We have conversations as well, and he has never raised a wife or girlfriend so I presume he doesnt have one

You presume?

I think you should do some asking around.

And is he your senior/boss?

Nope, he isnt my boss. In a slightly different department that works pretty closely with mine

I think you need to do a bit more research about this bloke before you end up making a fool of yourself.

How long have you worked there?