Husband just told me to f**k off

[Littlebriard]

I actually think he means it this time, but in any case, it's getting a bit wearing constantly being shouted at.

I am SAHM with a 3YO and 2YO. He earns the money (and likes to remind me of that fact).

What are my rights?

Tbh, I'd be more concerned by the digs about money than the f word.

Do you mean you want to divorce him?

Since you're married, you're entitled to a share of any assets, house etc, especially if you're on any deeds. Even if you're not, you'd still have claims and be able to put a charge on the house.

He'd be expected to pay child support, the children are entitled to a roof over their heads. Check out the 'entitled to' website to see what benefits/credits you could expect.

There's no reason you should be the one to move out. Get some proper legal advice and don't leave (unless he's dangerous) without knowing your rights.

I'd change buzz' comment up there to a You and I person statement with the last sentence being:

"..So if anyone is about do FUCK OFF, darling, perhaps it ought to be YOU!..."

He will need to pay 20% in maintenance for the dc, so I wonder what he would say about that?

What else has he done? My OH and I tell each other to fuck off all the time.

You may have shared custody of the children.

Tell him to fuck off and when he's got there to fuck off again.
I hate how some men choose to lord it over their wives just because they work in the home instead of out of it!

Charge him for your 'services' and I mean all of them and then see how far his wages stretch. Cheeky bugger! I'd be inclined to say, ok then, and walk out. Stay with a friend for a few days and let him deal with the house and kids instead.

Your rights? See a Solicitor. There are no guarantees, you would be entitled to child maintenance. Half the equity in a house owned by you both.