Flirting ??

[liverLadyLass]

I know everyone flirts,
But when another guy comments saying I'm sure you fancy him? And she doesn't say she doesn't but says she's coming into the work for that cheek?? He also deletes her texts? She says oi leave him alone on Facebook comments when he's being slagged of by friends?? He is a flirt with other woman and calls them sweetheart which makes me feel uncomfortable and I have told him but he still does it after apologising? Is it in my head??

No, that is horrible. That must make you feel awful. If my husband would do something like that I wold be furious. You have to set some boundaries where you both feel comfortable and no-one gets hurt.

Everybody flirts and I don't think there's anything wrong with that as long as you know where the line is.

I'm so sorry you have to go through this

Is there any more details? Do you think there's something's going on?

Hi thanks for your comment..
I don't think so there both in and out of each others work all the time regarding there type of work and she texts him things like oi oi ?? She has a fella but he's quite a chav only way I can explain! She is too,I dont think I have met her before only seen pics of her on his Facebook as he has her has a friend,my hubby is driven and successful with his own business that we built from nothing and I think I'm kind of worried she may be a gold digger?? Maybe I'm mad?? He says the last time, oh don't be daft! And I told him it makes me uncomfortable but he still calls woman sweetheart? Was in his office before and he did it again in front of me

Hi liverLady in my opinion, bloody facebook has a lot to answer for, its like a temptation for some men (and women).

I would be very upset if my dp was dping this, it is not fair and would make me feel very unloved.

Your partner should not be behaving like this, love. I am sorry you are feeling upset about all this.

She also should back off, he is a married man! She should not engage in silly messaging of flirting.

I would have a word with her.

A similar sort of situation went on with Dh before we got married, his friends sister constantly flirted with my fiance at the time on fbook.
I never have a problem with Dh having female friends but this crossed the boundaries and she I think actually enjoys contact with men that are attached...like eeekk says I would have a word with her

Thanks for your comment!
Do you think it could be just a little innocent flirting back n forth?? it makes me very insecure! If I did confronted her I would probably embarrass him by confronting her or so he would tell me I've embarrassed myself he really is a fantastic dad n hubby just this innocent flirting so to speak annoys me and he's the same with most woman who he sells to? He says it gets deals sometimes? And I explained that one woman one time may take it as reality and problems will occur so it can't be the same for the girl in question as she is only there to advertise his business? So there is not need for the flirting??
We never used to go out either! Not until recently and I've noticed he'll deliberately stand away and check other woman's rack. Out ?? Thinking I've not noticed or to stupid to understand he's actually doing it? what do I say without it getting into an argument ??

Im not good with confronting, How can I approach this woman or even let her know I ain't standing for it? Without DH knowing?? Any ideas would be great and thank you I thought I was being pathetic