Why are so many guys like this?

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Many men seem to flirt or show and interest in order to catch my attention but when I express and interest they loose interest o rsuddenly find a girl friend. I am fed up of playing it cool and mind games. i just want a normal man. agggggr!

Without knowing you if say that either you're drawn to the wrong sort of guys or you're sending out the wrong kind of signals. Could it be one or the other, or both?

how do you express interest? it could be that they flirt on physical level but you respond with more 'heavy' emotional interest which is a shock for them?

most of them are as dumb as fuck, just play them at their own game

I've read a few of your other threads and you seem to have had a couple of shitty, abusive relationships. Generally, when a woman's had some bad relationships, she needs to spend a fair bit of time sorting herself out and rebuilding her boundaries (sometimes with the help of a counsellor) before she starts dating again. Because sometimes women who have had bad relationships are too vulnerable, too needy, their radar is too wonky, and they both scare off any nice men they might meet, and are absolute magnets for horrible ones.