It has taken me 5 years to get to this point. My marriage has been in slow decline and I posted recently here
I think I finally got through to him tonight and he is falling apart. I hate myself for having gone through with this but I got to the point where I had no choice. There are still many hurdles to go over; not least telling the DCs and physically moving out. I don't think he will leave but I have found somewhere for DCs and me to go and can move in next week so that is what I will need to do.
Why won't he go and why won't he accept that our relationship is broken? This is so hard to do and I know the worst is yet to come. I'm very low, I feel like a cruel, cold hearted cow and I can't talk to anyone in RL until tomorrow. Just feeling very sad...