Long story short
Went no contact with parents after an incident at the beginning of the year.
I am happy with that - narc mother, enabling father, I was scapegoat.
But Ex and mother love each other. Mother really likes him and the two of them have kept contact. (two narcs, two golden children they feed of each other) Which is up to them. I made it clear to him that I wanted no contact and would prefer that the kids had no contact but I can't stop him and her having a relationship.
He's been taking the kids round there, dropping them off, getting my Mum to do pick ups from school.
Again, I wasn't happy but I can't do anything about it.
Today, he was supposed to get DD2 from school and run her to DD1 school where they were meeting to go into town as it's the start of half term. Except he got my mother to do it. And she kept the kids bags in the back of her car and has just landed round with them to return them TO ME AT MY HOUSE
I was polite, no more, didn't ask her in took the bags said thank you , she was all anytime you know we will help out more than glad to and here's your birthday card and she was turning on the tears about not seeing me, and the kids.
I kept it short and sweet and went in to cook kids tea. I'm still shaking (so apologies if my spelling is shot to hell). What can I do? She's handed me a card with money for my birthday I don't want it I don't want her here and the ex and her are sneaking her back into mine and the kids lives.
What can I do? Did I do the right thing?