Am trying to split with DH he has been abusive in the past (non violent) anyhow I commenced divorce proceedings with him saying he would never leave and never divorce. I then agreed that should he leave as soon as possible I would drop any divorce proceedings until after christmas. He orignally said he would be out by end of October this has now moved to mid november (because house he wants (out of budget) is not available to rent til then. Ok i agreed now his tenancy application on hold as he hasnt returned his declaration consent form which has been sitting on bed for past three days. As you can probably tell I am feeling somewhat confused and vulnerable. He has a history of cannabis use, tells me he is now a manic depressive and last weekend I found he had logged in under my name on internet and viewed websites about rape drugs!! If it was just me I would not hang about but we have three DC of which adore him and he would have no scruples in involving them in our troubles. Do I give him three weeks to move out which I fear he is showing no effort to meet or do I risk further confrontation and stand up to him now.