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venting--better out than in!

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sillybum · 26/10/2011 22:03

Just venting: Am in a happy relationship with DP of five years, and have lovely dc who we share most care for. our lives are hectic and stressful, and full of wonderful activities. and lots of love.
Thing is, have recently developed a massive crush on a mutual friend, who is also happily married. Kind of think he might have or have had a little thing for me too. But possibly no more as have put him at a distance. Still, think about him lots and try to find ways to orchestrate meetings for us four (awkward) or us two (sometimes fine and sometimes hugely awkward). However have been putting distance between us so I stop thinking about him. I totally know what gap in my life he fills and why I'm into him. Just gotta break the habit of thinking about him.

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squeakyfreakytoy · 26/10/2011 22:07

The main and good thing is, you recognise it is just a crush. It will wear off, honestly.. and at some point in the future you will wonder what on earth you saw in him, and be so glad it was nothing more than a crush.

Just dont do any more orchestrating... :)

ParsleyTheLioness · 27/10/2011 00:35

Yes, careful with this...the damage could be catastrophic. Just to find out in the end he turned into the farting inattentive mummy's boy same as the bloke you had in the first place...

izzywhizzysfritenite · 27/10/2011 02:19

I totally know what gap in my life he fills

If you know what gap he fills look to fill it with something else and if that something is another man, look to permanently close the gap so that you cannot lose your footing and slip down it again.

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