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Would you ever tell?

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judgynjury · 24/10/2011 19:11

A man I know who is married has had a string of affairs- and did so when his wife left him temporarily many times over 20 years. The last time was for 4 years although, she alwasy came to live with him in the UK every school holidays- in between then she was living elsewhere in Europe- and kept him dangling over whether she would come back for good.

Meanwhile he was on a dating site , describing himself as separated- which was stretching it a bit( he doesn't know I know but a friend of mine spotted him.)

He is now over the moon that his wife has come back, hopefully for good- but guess what- he is still shoiwng as online and recent activity on the dating site.

Now, it could be innocent and a pure ego boost, it could be an insurance policy- more like it- but it is bothering me.

I really really can't see myself interferring, but at the same time, the thought of an annonymous letter to her or a print out of his profile comes to mind.

I can't afthom it- he was desperate for her to come back.

OP posts:
AnyPhantomFucker · 24/10/2011 21:20

sgb, she makes a mean rabbit stew though

AnyPhantomFucker · 24/10/2011 21:20

The Young Apprentice

Utter shite

izzywhizzysfritenite · 24/10/2011 21:21

Origins of Us.

Utterly fascinating.

pollyblue · 24/10/2011 21:54

Love Origins Of Us. I swear I've never seen Dr Alice Roberts not all chipper and smiley. And it's not too highbrow, so a pleb non-academic like meself can follow.....

Charbon · 24/10/2011 22:49

Well you're obviously not a friend of his wife, given the way you describe her actions in your OP.

So I'd guess that you were having an affair with him and he's dumped you, probably not for the first time either.

IME people who send anonymous letters are spiteful and vindictive characters and it always comes back to bite them further down the line.

MardyArsedMidlander · 25/10/2011 09:50

Have a bit of poetry:

A Truth that's told with bad intent/ Beats all the Lies you can Invent

William Blake.

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