I suppose I am interested in ahem, length of time it takes your partner.
DP is very quick. Mostly he literally only lasts seconds but never more than a couple of minutes at the maximum. I have rarely had an orgasm through intercourse in previous relationships anyway, so we "sort me out" first and this generally works well.
He seems happy enough and seems to think that he is perfectly normal and that the only men who last longer than a minute or so are in porn films.
If I'm honest I do miss the intimacy of intercourse even though it didn't really hit all the right buttons for me. I suppose I wonder if it would be nicer for him to have it last a bit longer too? Sometimes it feels a bit clinical, that I am "done" and then he just puts it in to sort himself out. Sorry, if that's a bit too much information for a Monday morning!