Am I needy or is dp unreasonable?

[dollydoops]

I am trying to figure out in my head whether it is me who needs to change or dp. Basically I find it v hard to function normally and carry on with my day if I feel that dp is unhappy. For example, yesterday I was puttering round quite happily doing bits of housework while dp was working on the computer and then I went upstairs and did some work on my own computer. When I came down sometime later to get my phone, dp was annoyed about something. Couldn't get her to tell me what it was and she just kept saying she was busy and couldn't I leave her to get on with her work. However, even though I knew it would be better to just leave her to it, I couldn't seem to let it go and stayed in the room asking and asking dp what was wrong and if I could help. Is this me being too needy or dp being unreasonably moody and difficult? Can't decide- help please!

[MumblingAndBloodyRagDoll]

Solid she never jumped to conclusions....she got vibes....what's wrong with you that you assume she's just needy when she could in fact be suffering ina retionshi where her partner goes into tse horrible grump moods with no warning.

Ive been in those and they're awful!

Dolly Just watch out....see that your partner is not conrolling you. I never assumed theOP was male...I assumed she is in a same-sex reltionship.

[ShriekingLisa]

I never said anything about same sex relationships being wrong?! Why jump to conclusions?

I assumed myself that OP was a female. But after being on this forum a good few years i kinda can see how relationships forum goes. Some people say one thing then on another thread of same content but in a different way have different opinions. Just thought id mention this in my last reply.

OP how is your partner today?