I am trying to figure out in my head whether it is me who needs to change or dp. Basically I find it v hard to function normally and carry on with my day if I feel that dp is unhappy. For example, yesterday I was puttering round quite happily doing bits of housework while dp was working on the computer and then I went upstairs and did some work on my own computer. When I came down sometime later to get my phone, dp was annoyed about something. Couldn't get her to tell me what it was and she just kept saying she was busy and couldn't I leave her to get on with her work. However, even though I knew it would be better to just leave her to it, I couldn't seem to let it go and stayed in the room asking and asking dp what was wrong and if I could help. Is this me being too needy or dp being unreasonably moody and difficult? Can't decide- help please!