We cospept with all our children - joint decision - if anything more ohs idea than mine. We still often have 5 yr old ds arriving at some point each night.
We argued this morning during which oh shouted that I had "made him sleep on the floor for a year when we had ds". I didn't. He ended up sleeping on the floor because he said that ds kicked too much nd that he would prefer sleeping on the floor to either separate beds or ds in own room. He never had any problem with this though at the time, suggested it himself, refused all my suggestions that me and ds or he slept in bed in dss room (I was bfing and ds fed most of the night). He just kept saying that he was happy on floor as better for back etc (he was working away a lot at the time and slept on the floor then as usually said that the bed was too soft). Now he is claiming that I made him do it.
He has done this with other things - ie insists on eating horrid stale crusts (which I try to throw out for the birds but am told not to so that he can eat them) and then he makes a thing of the fact that I get "nice food whilst he has to eat stale crusts" - often jokingly but pretty constantly and sometimes crossly (but if I threw them out then he'd shout that i was throwing out food that he wanted). When I suggests that he doesn't make these comments then he either says that I'm over reacting or loses it.
Any suggestions?