Last night {Thursday} in our village there was a 'Christmas Celebration' concert which I had been asked to perform at with my Dad. My DH and I had also been asked to take part in a sketch which we were given scrpits for but told we didn't need to learn lines etc - just read. On Wednesday night DH called me and said that he had been told that he had an important darts match on Thu night which clashed with the concert and as he is the Vice Captain of the team he should be there - I reminded him of his commitment to te sketch but he asked me to call the minister who was organising the night and apologise that he could no longer make it. I did this grudgingly and the minister said he would just have to find a willing audience member to take part. I was also a little worried about how my MIL would cope with my 2 year old and almost 1 year old in the audience when my Dad and I were singing. Anyway Thursday night came and just before my brother arrived to collect DH for darts there was a phone call to say that the match had been cancelled...I thought that since the original plan was to go to the concert, my husband would them come along but no....he went to the pub anyway because he didn't want to let my brother down! What about letting the minister down? What about letting me down? He seemed to think I was being totally unreasonable...do you?