am i right to be bit worried

[elliebellys]

hi all,been with my partner 2 years,in all this time iv never met his mum,brother or his eldest daughter,he has 3 kids.when iv asked him about it he just says that they cant accept that he,s moved on with me nd thats why they dont ever speak to him.this seems strange to me ,am i right to be a bit worried.

He's still married/living with someone/has a 2nd life?

Beware of a man whose own family excludes him,it's never "their" fault.......

I'd say you were/are the OW then.

Have you met his friends?

hi,not ow,at least not that i know of.he told me that hed split with his ex couple of months before we became a couple.dont see his friends much,only a couple of times.

He is hiding things from you. He has been a shit in the past and doesn't want you to know about it. Step back. It sounds as if you don't know him properly and he doesn't want you to know all of him.

thanx notsorted,thats my main worry that hes hidin things from me,i can sort of understand there not bein communication with his ex,but not with his own mum nd daughter.

I expect he said his ex is a "psycho bitch" who has turned his family and kids against him.

I think what I'm having trouble believing is that an intelligent woman believed all this bullshit and it's taken you 2 years to query whether you were the real reason he left his family. If they hate him and he's also got very few friends left who are prepared to see you as a couple, there's a reason for that you know.

And it's taken you 2 YEARS to wonder this??? There is something seriously wrong here. Sorry.