We've only been going out with each other for over a year, he has full custody of his 3 yr old ds, I have both my dcs and atm he seems to have no time for me at all, I try to go to his every Friday night, when my eldest dc goes to his dads, he has every other Saturday childless, unless child is ill which he is, a lot according to boyf.
He's now started a college course on a whim, which means he's at college for 3 days a week soon to be 4. I asked him to my friends wedding a month ago, he said yes right up to the day before when he told me he had plans, then I found out these plans were blackberry picking with ds, I asked him to meet me in town last week he told me he was hanging up a curtain pole, I tried to sort out a meal out, booked a sitter and booked the table, and he rang me that morning after only seeing him an hour before to tell me dc was ill again, he didn't ask me up to his for a few hours either, knowing I'd booked a sitter, he's rang me ten times in the last 4 months I've rang him twice that since the beginning of this month.
He had plenty of opportunities to meet in town in the holidays, we were even in town at the same time a lot too, but we actually met up around 6 times, some of the times he was meeting his friend or with his mum. He's
even been down my way in his mum's car and hasn't bothered to pop in and see me. This sort of thing has been going off for months and I really have ran out of ideas, I honestly do think he's not interested any more, my friend said to me this morning that he's doing this so that I dump him and he can make me out to be the bad guy, she also said that all my friends have noticed how he's behaving and know that I am not the bad guy!
Please tell me I'm doing the right thing before I actually do it.