He was emotionally abusive, bordering on physically abusive, controlling and manipulative.
I am wearing a dress, heels and makeup for work for the first time in months because there was no body to tell me no to.
I will go home tonight and eat what I want, watch what I want, cuddle up with ds as long as I want because there is nobody to sulk and stomp about and tell me I am selfish and inconsiderate.
I feel a huge relief.
Gutted for ds because his goodbye was 'see ya dss I am going away for a while'
But all in all I think its the right thing to have done...