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a strange thing going on.

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CoffeeIsMyFriend · 19/09/2011 21:19

was going to namechange, but cant even be arsed.

DH went out with work last week, he was working in the city on the Friday so stayed over in a hotel. no problem with that, happens rarely.

He called earlier to ask if I would pop down to the garage as his car was getting something done, pay the bill and have it moved so he could collect it later this evening.

When he finished work (8ish) he called to say that as he had an early breakfast meeting in the morning he was thinking of staying in a hotel again but wanted to check it was ok with me, (I said it was ok)told me name of hotel, said love you (as normal) and off he went. Now - usually we have a decent conversation, chit chat about day but it seemed like he couldnt wait to get me off the phone - or maybe I am seriously paranoid.

I got a funny feeling in my tummy, got the kids to bed, looked up hotel, called it - nobody by DH name registered there, nobody under business name either. Have tried calling DH phone and it goes straight to voice mail, have text him and have sent him an email saying give me a call please.

As a rule, I am not suspicious, I trust my husband - so why do I have this horrid feeling? Why do I feel this way? It just all seems weird.

And if it all turns out to be a mountain out of a molehill and Anyfucker comes on and tells me to stop reading the relationship board again I will feel much better. Smile

No way would I normally call a hotel to see if he was there, even when he is the other side of the world from us, it just isnt me! But tonight I did.

sorry, super long and jumbled post. If I didnt have the children in bed I would be off to London on the next train, that is how paranoid I feel! Sad

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RachelHRD · 19/09/2011 22:47

Coffee glad all is OK with your DH he sounds lovely and genuine. It's tough as a SAHM to not let your mind run away with you sometimes especially if your DH works away a lot.

BTW that is EXACTLy how I ate my M&S walnut whip earlier :o) Prefer the real ones though!

Moodykat · 19/09/2011 22:53

I love a happy ending! Coffee you are a lucky lady!

ImperialBlether · 19/09/2011 22:58
garlicnutty · 20/09/2011 00:32

This has made me feel all soppy :) :) Thank you, Coffee & Mr Coffee!

I hope other posters read your thread and notice how a nice man acts when you feel insecure!

I've been having irrational feelings this last couple of nights - must be the seasons changing or summat Confused Hope you find your jewellery soon.

AnyFucker · 20/09/2011 00:37

stop reading the Relationships board, woooooman

Grin
CoffeeIsMyFriend · 20/09/2011 08:28

haha thanks AF and everyone else for not shouting "he's a dick, obviously leading a double life, leave the bastard!" Grin

Got up this morning after sleeping quite well (surprisingly) took the dogs out and came home to an email & text message saying how much he loves me, how he would NEVER do anything to hurt me and that he would be home later to give me a huge hug. Blush

In the cold light of day, I seriously doubt he would have the time, or inclination to do anything stupid. But well, last night insecurity crept in.

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allhailtheaubergine · 20/09/2011 08:36

I read that too fast and thought he was coming home to give you a huge dog. I was well jealous and already considering possibilities of throwing a wobbly to guilt my husband into buying me a huge dog.

Very happy it all worked out OP.

heleninahandcart · 20/09/2011 10:35

Good news then Coffee.

Interesting how posts on this thread got this right. Just shows that contrary to an oft quoted believe that there is too much 'leave the bastard', posts are in fact very balanced Smile

IslandMoose · 20/09/2011 11:43

What a great thread - it's lovely to hear about good relationships as well as bad ones. Don't get down on yourself, though, Coffee - everybody's entitled to feel a little wobbly once in a while.

CoffeeIsMyFriend · 20/09/2011 12:03

allhail I have TWO huge dogs already, if he came home with another one I would be filing for divorce! Grin

I know why I felt like that last night, I was thinking about someone I know who has recently separated from their husband and they seemed perfectly happy. She doesnt know what is happening and it is all a bit strange, so maybe that affected me more than I thought.

Anyway, DH will be home ina while and all will be fine in the coffee household.

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