Been seeing someone since March. It was ok at first but recently has become rather strained, we hardly ever see each other and when we do it's basically just him nagging for sex and me looking for excuses because sometimes I just want to talk (god forbid).
Anyway at first he used to text me every morning to say good morning, every night to say goodnight and during the day. It then dwindled down to just during the day. This Tuesday he didn't contact me at all. Nothing from him all day. Same thing happened yesterday, nothing at all from him all day.
The thing is, I'm fine with this because it obviously isn't working out anyway and I've been wanting to phase things out for a while anyway. The reason I havn't ended it properly is that we have both paid to see a show in November, something that we've both always wanted to see and something that we're both unlikely to get the chance to see ever again. I know it sounds shallow and materialistic but I didn't want to end it until after the show. I'm not starting to think he's thinking along the same lines??
What do you reckon? does it sound like he's trying to phase me out slowly?