feel neglected by husband

[rosealba]

i have four kids, one only a few months old. My husband does not seem to care how tired I am or how unhappy I am. He takes on more work than necessary and I pay the price by having to spend more time coping alone. I am starting to really question the relationship. I feel constantly neglected. He always pushes things back at me, telling me for instance that I choose to breastfeed.

Have you talked to him about how you feel? Have a word and let him know you need more support.

Detail why you feel that way and tell him he needs to step up. What's he like with other DCs while you are with the baby?

Even the way you've writen this, you sound exhausted :(
Throwing breastfeeding back at you.. yes of course its your own fault
He's clearly cock all use re helping you with the children, how's he in other areas? x

he is great at making kids laugh, quick entertainment but soon turns irritable.he seems to be more interactive in public eye like he needs other people's recognition. I've told him that I need him to help more but tonight he went off for three hours to an unnecessary meeting even though I have been in tears several times this week. I need to sleep now as baby is asleep but thanks for support.