Solid - lol! To be fair my family all though he must be a balding fat man with tatoos that just fancied a bit of young :-P Hes very straight, wears a suit to work and usually wears a collar all the time.
The age gap has never really bothered us, it is odd when we think about things like the fact his uni degree certificate is older than me (!) but largely it doesnt bother us.
Intellectually, mmm Im not daft but Im more of a practical life skills type of gal and hes an analytical numbers man, so Id say we're at the same level but within different areas.
Have I got news - to be honest I party til dawn every once in a while, and it kills me, Id much rather be curled up at home with a cuppa and a good book. But I do enjoy the odd night out, Im always out in the evenings gym, PTA, Volunteering & Rugby, hubby NEVER goes anywhere, another bit of a beef I have, sometimes it would be nice if he did just bugger off (sorry to those who have the opposite problem)
My previous partner was wonderful........except for the playstation, sex and jobless addictions! Loved him to pieces though, and probably still do a bit I reckon. I left him because of the no Job thing, I was very ill and having lots of time off work sick, and he carried on with his playstation, which made me realise that maybe he wasnt my 'one' despite him being the best friend I ever had. 
Getting out is more complicated than it sounds, im currently going through adoption proceedings to adopt his daughter, until that goes through, I cant take her with me, and he cant look after her, plus the boys would be devastated if they were separated from her.
Im continuing with the chipping away, and just letting him know the conversation isn't over, despite spectacular efforts on his part, to avoid the issue last night! 
and hes creeping today 