Please help me.

[smurfling]

It's over, I know it is over.

I have no idea what happens next.

I'm a SAHM, we have 1 son aged 5.
I earn nothing, the house is worth what we bought it for.
I'm so sad but I know it is right that it is over.
Please help me, I'm in bits.

To update, I feel a little calmer today.
I have sent H a text this morning telling him I do not want us to separate (although I've no idea how we move forward). The ball is in his court.
I phoned the CAB who were really helpful in a "it's too early for us to really offer you much advice" kind of way. They have pointed out that I can't claim anything or need to do anything until he actually moves out and even when/if he does, we are both liable for the mortgage so we will have to continue with the finances as they are for now.
They made me realise that this is not an overnight thing. It will take a long time to sort out so my panicking isn't necessary.
I really appreciate the support from everyone who replied.

So glad you're feeling a little calmer today, take one day at a time, be kind to yourself and good luck x

Glad that today has brought some good (ish) news. Hope you'll manage a nice long soak or at the least a peaceful .