My 20 year old son has just returned from 2 years of living abroad with his father. Since he has been back he is moody, unhelpful and unmotivated (he was like that before he went). My partner of 15 years and I have become really close and happy during these last two years and now my son's behaviour is affecting our relationship and we just keep fighting all the time. We have tried talking to my son about getting a job or going back to college but he won't even apply for jobs that I have found for him (he think's working in macdonalds is to menial). I don't want to keep fighting with my partner as I love him so much but I can see this coming in between us. How can we have a 'normal' loving relationship with my son in the house when he is like this? I would be grateful to hear if anyone else is going through this.