Would you let your DH/DP take "sexy" pictures of you or film you for his personal pleasure?

[NotEnoughTime]

My friend and I were talking about this last night.

I wouldn't be able to let my husband as I look crap naked dont have the self confidence!

Her husband has asked her could he take some pictures of her and/or a video. She is not sure. She has been married to him for over 20 years so she isnt worried that he will pass the pictures/film around.

Do you think she should do it and if yes have you got any tips?

Have any of you done this and been pleased with the outcome or regretted it?

fluffy, your DH's workmates sound like utter cunts, tbh

what sort of establishemnt does he work in ?

Yep he's in the motor trade!

Cunts doesnt even begin to cover it. And then theres what the girls get up to as well.

The problem with sales man is that once they have done a deal they have time to chat the girls up. And a good 80% do. And then tell all the other lads she's a right dirty cow. Nice.

Which is why we didnt invite any of his colleagues to our wedding and we don't socialise with them and we're not on facebook.

Or shag book as DH calls it....to his facebook mad sister.

I don't know anyone in the "motor trade"

thankfully

Yes - I have and would do again. A few ex's have photos and it doesn't bother me, all of them have been decent enough not to post them on the internet - but I wouldn't be that bothered if they did. Although, I have to say, the body isn't what it used to be so I'd be more reluctant these days and more worried about them ending up on the internet.

Fluffy - nice guys

I'm with laza on this one. We have done the BJ photos etc but I asked DH to delete them a week or so later and told him from word go that they were not to go on the computer in case we both died in a car crash and my DB found them.

No, absolutely not, under no circumstances.

Unfortunately the girlfriends think their nice guys ! (feel depressed now at what men get up to).

er, i hadn't thought about the fact that if i were to die tomorrow after taking pics like that it would most probably be parents or siblings sorting out my house posessions!

morbid thought but another good reason not to actually.

I think part of me would be flattered if I came across some dirty images of me on the internet if they'd been taken 20+ years ago while I was still smooth and taut I think I'm quite shallow sometimes

My dp took some of me years ago on a disposable camera. It was a very embarrassing trip to Boots to collect them. I'm suddenly getting a wee bit panicky because I haven't a clue where they are now.

I did this with my bf of 8 months, when we split a few weeks later he sent me a photo of me giving hima bj and called me a slut, live and learn girls, live and learn, never again and I hope I never become famous x

ps the only other time I have done this was when I was about 20 back in the 80's, dh had a new polaroid instamatic and if i remember rightly I had the hairiest bush known to mankind, the photos were destroyd a few weeks later on the open coal fire lol, how times change hahahah xx

bestfootforwards It's more common than you'd think with parents. A friend of mine was being shown his parents' holiday video years ago when the holiday footage came to an end to be succeeded by rather more adult footage. He had to hide behind a swiftly raised newspaper while they composed themselves and stopped the tape.

OP, if your friend is going to do it, and they have kids, she needs to make sure that the kids will never find it...