for those whom are separated/divorced....how long did you wait before venturing out on the whole 'dating thing'. My ex and I separated 3 weeks ago, very amicable, as the marriage had been dead a long long time before we actually did. He told me he is considering starting to go out for nights on the town...see what happens. I am delighted he is moving on. Myself...someone has declared an interest and I am interested but...how soon is too soon?! I dont think either of us are thinking of diving head first into a full blown relationship, or intending on having a million one night stands (classy) but just....testing the waters. I am really pleased we have been able to stay friends and that both of us are looking forward to our separate futures, but also wonder if its bad to be considering even looking at another person so soon into separation. Thoughts?