Background, I separated 3yrs ago, 3 dc's. NM separated 1yr, no dc's. Both his exw & my xh were unfaithful (not with each other). We met over 2mts ago but have spent loads of time together so I feel I now know him quite well & visa versa. I'm the first person he's dated since marriage break up but he feels we have a future & is looking for a serious relationship, marriage etc. I've met all his family. I equally feel there is a good chance we have a future together, we are v compatible & get on v well together. I also feel because of our respective histories we both have a better idea of what type of partner would suit us etc.
I would have always thought previously that I would never introduce anyone to my dc's until we had been dating at least 6mts. However I was finding it increasingly difficult to keep the two worlds apart & ended up throwing caution to the wind last week & he met dc's briefly. They all hit it off fine & it was all done v casually. Dc's have no problem with the idea of me dating & in fact would welcome the idea. I've now agreed to do a day out at w'end with NM & dc's. Am I jumping the gun or do I just go with the flow & enjoy what's there for now without worrying about it all??