my sister is 32 and has a DD who is almost 14.
She split from dd,s father when dd was 2 and since then has gone from one rocky relationship to another.
She always calls the police on her boyfreinds and says they are beating her up, we have NEVER seen any bruises and neither has anyone else.
She is going through a divorce ATM from a man that we all liked, he was quite a bit older than her but really good with my niece and worshipped my sister.
She pushes all the men she,s been with to their limit, flirting with their friends,brothers in front of them, shouting embaressing things at them in public and reducing them to tears.
She seems to get a kick out of a big drama take saturday night for instance.
At 7pm i heard shouting and screaming in my hall i came downstairs to find my sister her DD and her boyfriend in the hall, sister says he has hit my niece so i threw him out, niece is hysterical and says yes he did, so i made sister call the police, police came and then went round to see boyfriend. When they returned their attitude was different to sister and asked if she wanted to press charges, she said she didnt know.
Now she,s saying she doesnt think he hit her dd and dd is exaggerating, the rest of us believe her dd as she wouldnt make it up-shes not like that shes a really good girl.
What can we do?
Sister is mentally unstable and has been told by her counsellor that this is emotional abuse the way she treats men, her latest boyfreind is ok but he,s gone from being outgoing and happy to quiet and sulky.
And to top it all she,s 2 months pregnant.
im just sick of her antics ive got enough on my plate but really feel sorry for her dd, i think he didnt mean to hit dd as she was stood in front of her mum but he DID assault her didnt he?
Police say they cant press charges unless sister agrees and she now wont.
Very very sad