My DH died nearly 3 years ago, a sudden heart attack. I have a 21-yr old DS. Although I'm pretty much OK now and have a great relationship with my DS, I'm just lonely. Not looking for a new relationship, just friends (with brains) that I can talk with. I work full time and am always too tired to go out - never been much of a mixer - but would just love to be able to talk about things with people my own age (57, how old does that sound!). My DS is wonderful but has his own friends & interests, doesn't want to listen to mum going on all the time! Anyone out there as ancient as me who just wants a friend??