So I have met this guy who seems great with but he is going through a nasty divorce. We are just keeping in touch at the moment because of divorce. We haven't slept together etc so are pretty much just friends.
He does not bad mouth his STBEx but is finding it hard to understand the things she is alleging against him. She is also using their kids as a weapon to get to him (last week when he was dropping them back, their daughter was crying as didn't want to leave him and she said "if you don't stop performing, you're not seeing your father again" in front of him).
During my coffee break this morning I went on FB and her name came up on right hand side as 'someone you may know' (we are from same area). Curiosity got better of me and I clicked on her name.
Her profile is not secure so is open for anyone to see. So think you know where this is leading, I read her wall posts and status updates. I know, I know, wrong on lots of levels but I couldn't help it.
Her status updates seem to focus on slating her STBEx. Nasty comments in my opinion where she is criticizing his appearance and saying stuff about she wasted her life etc etc.
People have commented on her postings with stuff like 'better off without him' etc etc.
I don't really understand why anyone would want to put their personal issues all over FB, especially when you have it open for all to see. Many of the updates are late at night, seemingly after a few drinks.
So, being quite insecure myself I'm wondering whether I should just not think about what I read and it is just a bitter wife getting divorced from her husband, and keep my damn nose out or would you be alarmed by the comments and people branding him all sorts of nasty names???