i dont no if i am im 40 have a dd of 16 months who is my world i do and have done everything for her my h has partisipated to a certain extent but ive done all feeds[breastfed for 8 months]nearly every nappy,absolutly every bath,feed ext.....he works full time but gets to go to gym 3 nights a week makes his own tea when he gets in goes for a shower then chills watching t.v,goes on hiking holiday to mates in france for a week i go to a chalet down south,he gets pissed into oblivian most weekends,i no he loves dd but i feel so unlovedwe dont sleep in same room and haven,t since dd was born we dont have sex unless hes pissed[he told me i dont do anything for him]i feel he dosen,t get it when i say im so tired i haven,t slept uninterupted for 2 years now,its turned into a competion of who does most,i have to balance all the finances,clean,fix,look after dd i dont no what to do for the best i think i want him to go away but i feel so guilty like im taking him away from his dd and we,re all he has