Dh has been working away recently so I have been sending him lots of pics and videos with the dc in.
He claimed he had not recieved one I had sent and I thought he must have deleted it by mistake, I used to have the same mobile as him and knew how to retrieve the full contact history even deleted messages etc (dh is a tech dunce so won't know this)
We often text friends or take pics on each others phones so I was in noway snooping.
I noticed right away about 50 texts back and forward between his phone and another, things about trying to get transport to meet this girl and them wanting to sleep together before he came home etc
I honestly thought I would throw up and could not stop shaking, I was so worked up I thought I would have a heart attack.
He walked into the room, I handed his phone and calmly told him I had found his deleted messages and to get out now.
He then looks confused before bursting out laughing and explaining that the guy he was away with has ran out of battery on his mobile so used dh's to text a girl he had met ( I had actually been told all about this guy and the girl he had met but not payed much attention)
I went back and re-read the messages and right enough the first few are explaining why it is a diff mobile etc.
I have never had any reason to distrust dh before and this shook me up so much, I honestly thought for those few mins that mine and my dc lives were about to be torn apart.
Dh did try the whole "I can't believe you would think that of me" speech which I really let rip at him for, he still had messages on his mobile from another woman wanting to meet for sex and I would imagine most wives would think the same as me.